The Key to Success

Co-Creating the Coaching Relationship: The Key to Success

In coaching, the foundation of any successful engagement is the relationship between the Coach and Client. At its core, this relationship is designed to help the client achieve their goals while ensuring clarity, trust, and psychological safety. The International Coaching Federation (ICF) highlights this as Core Competency #3: Establishes and Maintains Agreements.

Why Co-Creation Matters
Co-creating the coaching relationship allows both the Coach and Client to:

• Establish norms and expectations

• Understand relationship dynamics

• Create a psychologically safe environment

• Clarify logistical and administrative matters
  
  

This process typically takes place at the beginning of the coaching relationship, but it’s flexible and can be revisited at any time if the situation changes or something isn’t working.

Your Role as the Client
You are responsible for bringing the coaching topics or issues that matter most to you. This ensures that the coaching remains focused on your priorities and your growth.

Coach’s Role
I may occasionally be direct, but my intent is always to help you stay focused and progress toward your goals. I encourage open communication—please let me know at any time if something feels off, if I’m making assumptions, or if you feel we need to adjust our approach.

Questions to Consider

• What does a successful relationship between us look like?

• How can we ensure the coaching sessions feel safe and productive for you?

By co-creating the relationship from the start, we build a strong foundation for clarity, accountability, and meaningful transformation, ensuring every session is purposeful, focused, and aligned with your goals.